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Getting someone to reply 3/24/2005
I know that getting someone to reply is up to the person the
the messege was sent to but, even after trying for 3 years,
I still haven't gotten a favorable response. Any help
here.
0 Comments,
265 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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-Hide and Seek- 3/24/2005
The sentence of time, moving on the hands of the clock, wandering,
waiting, seeking, searching. moments to precious, life
to short. find the presence and essence of freedom and exsistance,
giving chance to the fullness of truth beyond all that we
have come to learn and believe in our lives. giving instead
of a neatly wraped package, an open book that contains ever
bit of everything you wish ...
0 Comments,
72 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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A Good Domme 3/23/2005
I can't believe the number of complaints I hear from
men I communicate with about not being able to find a truly
dominant woman or someone who knows what she's doing.
I'm new to the lifestyle so of course hearing this is
not music to my ears. I've just read a short article
that asks a question that is impossible to answer which
is what makes a good submissive or slave.
<br>
What ...
0 Comments,
313 Views,
8 Votes
,2.55 Score
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Need to go longer? 3/21/2005
Do You need to go a little longer while having sex? are you
a male who tends to be a one minute man? Well the most simplest
thing you could ever do when in the heat of the moement is
to..."CHANGE POSITIONS." you'll both
have more fun and go longer ...
1 Comments,
288 Views,
10 Votes
,3.39 Score
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Responsibilities on both parts 3/20/2005
The submissives creed
<br>
I will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires,
limits, and experience. I realize that failing to do so
will not only prevent my Master and I from having the best
experience possible, but can also lead to physical and
emotional harm. I will not try to manipulate my Master.
I will not push to make a scene go the way I feel it should.
I will ...
3 Comments,
664 Views,
46 Votes
,9.26 Score
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spanking 3/20/2005
please...please could you advise me!!!!
I've been with my boyfriend for 18 months now and i really
am quite shy about asking him or getting him to spank me (
especially over the knee). He is quite the dominant partner
in the bedroom but besides hitting my arse in play, like
when i walk past him, he's never done anything more.
Please don't just write back saying 'share your
fantasy with ...
6 Comments,
323 Views,
8 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Coffee and sex. 3/15/2005
Hi everyone. I smoke cigarettes and drink coffee like crazy.
Pretty gross I know. Here is my question. I know that cigarettes
are not the best for ones sexual performance (please don't
imagine me smelling like an old ashtray and having the face
of an old baseball mit, its not true ok?) but what about coffee?
Has anyone heard if it can have negative effects? I mean,
I am doing ok, but there ...
4 Comments,
296 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score
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inner peace 3/14/2005
Personal preferances... why is it that we all want our own
things yet what we really want at the end is what everyone
else wants. everyone is searching, everyone seeking and
looking. what is true, what is it that is real, what is it
that makes people feel so alone, so lost or so restless.
where is satisfaction, where is happiness, it is said to
seek and you shall find, if it is so then many ...
0 Comments,
65 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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weak is the strenght 3/14/2005
there are the weak and there are the strong. yet many are
delussionized for to which is the one and which the other.
for many not to cry means being strong, yet it takes alot
of strenght just to get past the views of that very acceptance
and belief to be able to cry. its just so much easier to fight
it and just not do it and deny our selfs our emotions which
comes to a weaker point of then ...
0 Comments,
94 Views,
5 Votes
,4.77 Score
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Why is it that I can never find any... 3/13/2005
Why is it that I can never find any older women that are interested
in young men. I've got an extreme infatuation with
older women, and being 18, by older women I mean women ages
25-50. Why is it that most women arn't interested in
guys much younger than them? Any advice? It's my dream
to get with a MILF. Thanks.
4 Comments,
210 Views,
3 Votes
,0.49 Score
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Forms of Punishment 3/9/2005
I've been a practicing DOM for many years and now I find
myself in a unique situation. My slut is very eagar to please,
submits to my desires and generally behave very well. Sometimes
I think she either because of a lack of experience or because
she wants to be bad she goes a bit out of her way to earn punishment.
Punishment has for me ranged from administering several
quick and heavy ...
4 Comments,
780 Views,
8 Votes
,4.17 Score
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My fantasies scare me! What if I get too into SM? 3/7/2005
What if I get too into SM?
Sometimes people who are attracted by some aspects of SM
worry that they will immediately go from enjoying spanking
and light bondage to fisting and golden showers. Nothing
could be further from the truth.
<br>
SM is a blanket term for a huge variety of alternative ways
to make love. This FAQ list has outlined some of the possibilities.
No one I know ...
1 Comments,
359 Views,
11 Votes
,4.10 Score
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Need Advice On Restraining 3/5/2005
Hi Everyone
<br>
This is my first post here, and Im hoping you can help me out.
<br>
Me and my partner have recently started having some fun
together using restraints (handcuffs, chains, ropes,
etc). Mostly he's been doing it to me, but now i wanna
do it to him.
<br>
But heres the problem...I dont have a very good imagination,
and cant think of too mnay ...
7 Comments,
442 Views,
11 Votes
,2.61 Score
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Why lie..........? 3/5/2005
Prior to having my joint profile and meeting my partner,
I had a sole profile. All totalled I've been a member
of Alt for 2 years. But the one thing I'll never get over,
is why there are so many fake's and frauds out there.
WHY LIE? I'm sure we've all met people who are very
different in person to how they are online, which resulted
in all parties wasting their time.
<br>
But ...
6 Comments,
497 Views,
16 Votes
,4.60 Score
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Is submitting online any fun? 3/1/2005
I think there might have been a similar topic at one point
but I don't think it ever addressed the feelings of
it.
<br>
I was just curious as to whether or submitting via email
or instant messaging was a fun way to explore the feeling
of submitting to another person. I have personally never
felt cyber sex was any better then being alone due to the
lack of intimacy, but I could ...
5 Comments,
301 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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Kinky.... With ! 3/1/2005
The joys of parenthood are many and well documented, so
are the trials and tribulations. As parents we struggle
through the seemingly endless nights of 2 am feedings,
the terrible twos, potty training, kindergarten, elementary
school and homework, the much dreaded adolescence (which
seems to increase the global sale of valium at a remarkable
rate) drivers licenses, graduation and college ...
2 Comments,
478 Views,
7 Votes
,5.33 Score
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Spanking... basics and tips for doing it well 3/1/2005
Spanking is one of the classics in erotic power exchange.
The term spanking is usually used for anything that has
to do with spanking the bottom. In general, no other parts
of the body are involved. Purist spankers will only accept
spanking as spanking when it is done by hand, but often the
back of hair brushes, table tennis bats, slippers, a swat
or small leather devices, sometimes shaped ...
2 Comments,
377 Views,
20 Votes
,6.83 Score
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How to be safe at that first meeting 3/1/2005
Time and time again W/we are hearing of women being kidnapped,
and murdered, and unfortunately W/we are also hearing
of Doms who simply go too far, especially on that all important
first date. I've been involved in the D/s lifestyle
for over 25 years and have picked up a few tricks that may
help A/all on that all important first meeting to stay safe.
<br>
a) ALWAYS - without ...
3 Comments,
213 Views,
11 Votes
,5.22 Score
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Punishment Rules 2/27/2005
• 1 Punishment will not include any serious bodily injury
or drawing of blood.
<br>
• 2 Punishment will be stopped if blood is drawn
<br>
• 3 Punishment will be stopped if burning the body occurs
<br>
• 4 Punishment will be stopped if drastic loss of circulation
occurs
<br>
• 5 Punishment will be stopped if loss of consciousness
occurs
...
0 Comments,
212 Views,
6 Votes
,4.22 Score
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On the Bottle... 2/22/2005
I had recently read a posting reminding me of seeing a girl
friend of mine bury a small
Gatorade bottle, one of the 12, or 16oz size, with the big
mouth...
<br>
She put a steel ball bearing she got from me (about an inch
across) in the bottle, then in it
all went... That alone was worth the week end...
<br>
As she walked around the motel room, the steel ball ...
2 Comments,
537 Views,
12 Votes
,3.86 Score
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how to get great profile pics? how to spice them up? 2/20/2005
Howdy,
<br>
I was curious to know what the consensus was for pictures
for a profile? Besides the Cock shot (which is boring) what
would make for an interesting picture that would appeal
to people?
<br>
Something unique, naughty and fun. I am trying to come up
with something a little different, other than the shots
of my face or body, something that looks fun, and is ...
1 Comments,
142 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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squirting 2/19/2005
a few times in the last year I've squirted when I cum.
Why does this happen? Why have I only started doing it recently?
etc, etc
<br>
Any information would be appreciated, thanks.
6 Comments,
496 Views,
6 Votes
,4.22 Score
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Profile advice 2/15/2005
Just updated my profile, I know it's long but a short
one, well just isn't me. Do you think what I've
put down is good bad or indifferanr, any advice suggestions
appreciated, thanks
<br>
=================================================
<br>
_________________________________________________
D'ya know wot your looking for? Take the initiative,
try me!
...
7 Comments,
125 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Explaining my desire to be a submissive... in words even my mother could understand. 2/12/2005
Why would anyone want to be a submissive?
My mother is baffled by the thought. "I thought I raised
you better." She entered her adult life during the
woman's movement. My toys also frighten her. This
is how I explained my desires to her so she could possibly
understand.
<br>
When I was dancing, I was a "slave" to my choreographer.
She worked me harder than I ever had. If my ...
2 Comments,
305 Views,
10 Votes
,5.58 Score
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how can i find what im looking for? 2/8/2005
I live up in Wa. and am really turned on by encasement and
mummification. The question tht i have is this: where are
all the people who are into the same things? Ive visited
some of the sited under the heading of but not wear i can find
the same minded people. If anyone can help me out i sure would
appriciate it. Thats all for now folks. thanks.
0 Comments,
66 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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advice 2/8/2005
what is spooning i am new at this and i have not heard this
saying before
1 Comments,
305 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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Getting used to chat rooms 2/1/2005
There seems to be chat room rule book I don't know. Certainly
I get the feeling there are groups of frineds who dominate
some of them especially, funnily enough, the cybersex
room. Here it appears that some people hang around chatting
without nay intention of having cybersex. In fact one or
two women seem to be intent on getting their kicks by fighting
off all-comers - and I don't mean me ...
7 Comments,
316 Views,
14 Votes
,4.42 Score
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"SANTA.WHAt's.PAY.THE.PIPER?" 1/30/2005
SANTA[DEADLINE]Universal.Default(-$) According to
Bankrate.com there are 1.2 Billion credit cards in use
in America. many users don't pay off their balance
every month, either. That can be crippling. For example,
a $1, 000 charge on an average credit card will take almost
22 years to pay and will have cost more than $2, 300 in interest($3, 300
total)-if only 2% min.payments are ...
0 Comments,
71 Views,
0 Votes
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Profiles 1/28/2005
How should a profile be writen so that it will get peoples
attention and get responses
2 Comments,
237 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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GRRRRRRRRRR 1/26/2005
hi how do people go from being Master to submissive then
a transvestite all in a matter of three days, and expect
the submissive to become Mistress when she is a sub through
and through.It is all so confusing for me
2 Comments,
251 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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