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RE: Looking for advice on using Candle Wax 12/10/2003
First if you are new to it i would tell you to stayaway from
candles made with bees wax as they burn hotter, save the
bees wax for the whips. Also stay away from dark candles
especialy red for the same reasons. A white candle will
burn cooler. You can also regulate the heat by holding the
candle at different distances from the body. Have ice handy
to aply to any burns to south and cool ...
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You can't the willing 12/10/2003
Ok, first off i'm a dom/sub meaning i could go either
way, but i'm confused by the behavor of most of my fellow
thrill seekers here on ALT. Most seem to think a sub should
be completely obedient and worship the master like a disgustingly
worm. Ok, i can see the ego trip in that. My problem comes
in when the dom calls that sub a slave. Personally, i always
understood slavery to be the ...
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Corrected Response to: Commitment of Submission 12/8/2003
Thank you, alt, for butchering my original posting of this
response. Here is how it SHOULD read:
<br>
Exactly what do you mean by "economic" submission?
Does this mean that you expect a submissive to give you money,
or that you expect the submissive to give up their job anad
financial control in order to be your submissive? Or is
there a third option I do not see? , ...
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Response to: Commitment of Submission 12/7/2003
this
taking advantage of a person.
<br>
And no submissive should give up his or her financial Exactly what do you mean by "economic" submission?
Does this mean that you expect a submissive to give you money,
or that you expect the submissive to give up their job and
financial control in order to be your submissive? Or is
there a third option I do not see? , perhaps? ...
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Response to: How can I give head without jaw cramps 12/7/2003
I am very sorry to tell you that your jaw is going to get tired
and seize up no matter WHAT you do. Unless, of course, you
find yourself a man with a smaller dick. If he's punishing
you because your jaw hurts, perhaps you ought to have a little
discussion about that with him. I find it entirely unacceptable
to be punished for a physical condition he causes in the
first place. lol Even ...
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Second submissive...lonely 12/7/2003
Lonely:
<br>
At one time or another, we have experienced some form of
being lonely. We can be in a room full of people, yet feel
ourselves to be alone. We can be with friends, yet, somewhat
lonely.
<br>
Alone is a very tough place to live. It is a very sad and disarming
feeling. Consistent aloneness can cause a disruptive
emotional state. The desire to connect with ...
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THE SUBMISSIVE MIND 12/7/2003
I have traveled this road many times but never like this.
Today this road has a different meaning as it is the road
to an unknown pleasure. It is a journey to my fire of desire.
As I pull my car into the long term parking space and gather
my belongings, I feel my heart pounding. I can hear each
beat. I am dripping with wetness, my juices flowing uncontrollably.
I have been instructed to ...
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Games w Electrics Charges 12/7/2003
First some principles. Anything can be a conductor of electricity,
including the human body. What makes the body react to electricity
is whether its accumulated charge is discharged. Discharge
of electricity is accomplished through grounding. By
being grounded, electricity will pass right though the
body onto the grounding device. Thus, to build up an electrical
charge the body needs to ...
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re re ROLE PLAY 12/5/2003
No one will ever read this, because it seems my articles
rarely make it to the site!
<br>
But, I often thought that a service for this could be provided,
They have services, we all know about them, Why not
offer an underground of course, fantasy service.
Where a women or man can fill out a short survey, describe
general scene, and have fantasy fullfilled proffesionally, ...
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Response to "He thinks he is so good" 11/30/2003
You are 19 and he is 26 and he is your slave when it suits him?
Sounds like you need to learn a bit more about being the dominant,
sweetie. And a discussion or two with him about what you
want your "relationship" to be wouldn't
hurt. Perhaps he doesn't WANT to be the slave all the
time. If this is the case, you will not change his mind and
he will only resent you for trying to play the ...
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Consensual BDSM vs. Abuse vs. Disorder 11/30/2003
In the past, most sado-masochistic activities and fantasies
were regarded by psychiatrists as resulting from mental
disorder. Recently, most psychiatrists have decided
that BDSM activities and fantasies are not normally symptomatic
of mental disorder. For example, the DSM-IV says that "The
fantasies, sexual urges, or behaviors" must "cause
clinically significant distress or impairment in ...
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re: Knight in Shining Armor?? 11/28/2003
I've been a member of alt.com for a few years and I think
you are totally wrong when you say that this is "obviously"
a swingers site. Gosh, how weird. It says Fetish/BDSM &
Alternative Lifestyle personals at the top of each page!
It doesn't mention the word swinger at all. If you have
a poor married situation, I'm sorry for it and sorry
for you and your wife. But don't try to make it my ...
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Sissy Laundry Day 11/27/2003
I would like to tell you how my wife punishes me once a week, I
do the laundry on saturday, first i must per-wash all her
and my own underware in my mouth and then hand wash.
when i have all the stains removed it is drying time.
My wife came up with the idea of a human clothes dryer, this
is a rotary type clothesline in our yard, we have a very private
yard so no one can see or get in. I ...
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For SirIceMan 11/20/2003
No Long Goodbyes
<br>
We say goodbye to a friend this week. We are glad to have known
him, sad to see him leave. He was kind enough to tell us he
was going. He does not leave alt because he wants to, but
because Life has made the decision for him. He says goodbye
because he doesn’t want to leave us wondering Why he has
gone. This is the control he has in a situation beyond ...
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Dark Gift Embrace 11/15/2003
you look up at the address, then the address on the slip of
paper given to you, by Mistress. you walk slowly up the stairs,
and approach the door. you close your eyes...sigh.
This is your last chance to back out of this...you are so
unsure about what you want to do...Then you remember Her
eyes, the indigo blue and how they change to the blood red
as She transforms into the pale alabaster ...
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Japanese Rope Bondage 11/9/2003
the games that focus on giving pleasure through the process
of creating and sustaining physical restraint predicaments
accurately can not accurately be called Sadomasochism?
To people who enjoy being physically restrained the means,
manner, materials contribute to specifically different
trips. Being allowed to savour the sensual progression
of the experience is often interrupted by ill ...
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Knife PLAY 11/8/2003
I've read the knife play stuff, just a point here!!!
<br>
Be careful!! Some like Myself are into extreme scarification,
knife play for me, I would not wish to destroy the pretty
body of a women, but I like the release, However I'm
not into self pain, you might call it.
<br>
I trulely beleive if you want it , its pleasure, there is
no pain. First aid is probally a good ...
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A Really Bizarre Way to Use a slave! 11/3/2003
This is a true story. It was nearly seventeen years ago that
i began my training as Mistress Michelle's sex slave.
i was twenty-four when i signed myself over to Her and not
really that experienced sexually. But i was eager to explore
new sexual horizons and expand my limits. i wanted to be
degraded and humiliated, and i asked Mistress Michelle
to do this to me. She realized my ...
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THREE CATEGORIES: Sadomaso or BDSM? 11/3/2003
What many called alone Sadomaso (abbreviated S/m) in the
rest of the globe, and natutarlmente in the net, different
what from BDSM and also from BD or DS comes defined BDSM.
And with S/m agrees one. BDSM is therefore an acronym that
collects Bondage, Disciplines, Domination, Submission,
Sadomasochism. Every category represents different
aspects and approaches to the game of the pleasure and ...
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Building a BDSM relationship 11/3/2003
The most important things - for both partners involved
- to undertand are these:
<br>
Things will take longer than probably expected
There are a few distinct phases, but they develop simultanuously
There are different levels, that also develop simultanuously
But "education" is probably the keyword in
every BDSM relationship and again that comes in different
levels: ...
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TORONTO clubs 11/2/2003
hey, I don't live in T.O. just outside, I was wandering
if anyone would care to shareinformation on the club scene(s&m)
Wouldn, t mind checking them out, say next time i get vacation, I've
never been I guess cause my friends won't go, any comment
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I am...a Sensual Submissive 10/29/2003
I am...seductive and coy, humble and yet wild at heart.
I am serious and should be taken as such. I am a changeling
and earthy, spiritual and witty, charming yet have a sharp
bite when angered. I am Celtic and strong blonde and curvacious.
Lickable and loveable, sensitive and sweet. Demure but
confident..Mother, student, slut, companion, confidant,
and psychologist.
<br>
I ...
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Open Letter to Jackasses 10/23/2003
(Originally written as a confrontation in the Lobby, previously
posted by my and then erased by someone else who couldn’t
take the truth. Re-posted now as it is more relevant than
ever.)
<br>
What makes you think you have authority over me or any other
sub/slave? What makes you think we have to answer questions
about how long we’ve been with our dominant or what we like
to ...
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Re: Types of Collars and Meanings 10/21/2003
It is very much between the two people how "exclusive
and or binding" a training collar is, however from
what I have seen personally it is generally implying ownership
and or the taking charge of ones training at the Dominant's
discretion, and the submissive's willingness. Now
as to how SOON should one take a collar..Oh my theres a quandry.
Here is an easy way to solve it..If you feel it ...
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Response to Lilsubmiss 10/20/2003
There is an unfortunate circumstance that becomes more
and more prevelent as more and more people go online and
find the bdsm world more accessible.
<br>
It is called stereotyping.
<br>
"Decent" society deems us all to be degenerates
because we like to do icky, kinky and disgusting things
to each other. We are all sick in the head. We are all stupid
and need saving ...
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Re: EMPOWERMENT 10/20/2003
I am right there with you both Tyler Rose and lilsubmiss,
I too was absent the day the reference materials were handed
out to the cyber community.... Hate it when I miss class
like that geesh! I can only back up what you are both saying
and add this...If someone SEEMS a little MANIC to you? RUN!!!
It only gets worse. If they say they want to "Collar"
you in one night...RUN!! Bring ...
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japanese bondage terms 10/20/2003
Shinju is the japanese word for "pearl", and
it is used to describe a tie or chest harness of the chest
and breasts. It is used euphamistically of the breasts
or nipples as pearls.
<br>
Shkuranbo Sakuru is the term for "cherry" and
is used to denote the bottom tie of the female waist and is
euphamistically used to refer to the vagina.
<br>
Karada, is the Japanese ...
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Just out of Curiosity.... 10/16/2003
I read the stories and articles on alt regularly. As an avid
reader I cannot help but wonder in all of this erotica where
is the safety? A ton of articles and stories tell of encounters
and "Shooting ones load into her" or "Swallowing
for 23 guys". Is it just me or does anyone else out there
find it even remotely odd that as a knowledgeable human
being there are in fact diseases? Makes ...
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EMPOWERMENT--Response to Responses 10/14/2003
To those who took the time to post responses--I thank you.
It is nice to know my work is appreciated.
<br>
I find it very interesting that (as of this writing) there
are more Didn't Like It and So-SO votes than there are
Liked a Lot and Excellent votes.
<br>
Very interesting indeed.
<br>
So who are these people who do not like an Empowered woman? ...
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The Cost of Love 10/14/2003
(Originally written in 2001 and resubmitted by the author—this
subject is always relevant.)
<br>
I am deeply disturbed by events of the last two weeks. Those
of you who know me from msn and alt.com’s chat rooms know
me to be uncompromising in defending myself against unwanted
advances.
You know me to be outspoken in my views, whether they relate
to our Lifestyle or the ...
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