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I enjoy almost all aspects of the BDSM lifestyle I have participated in and have more to explore. I am a switch, able to be either a Dom or a Subbie. I have far more experience as the Dom (yet do not consider myself a full master) due to my last two relationships. I am still learning a lot about all the wonderful types, disciplines and activities this lifestyle has. I am first looking for a woman to have an emotional bond with, yet at the same time enjoy playing around and moving into the full lifestyle we choose to have. I enjoy taking a woman out for fine dining or just a burger depending on the mood, opening doors and being a gentleman are what I strive for, yet can be dirty and playful when it’s time to be. To either be a sub or a Dom takes time to gain that trust from your partner. I am not looking for a 1-night stand or a professional. I feel it takes times and maybe a ton of emails and other communication to make it work. Communication will be made initially via ALT, then personal email or , then text/phone/video chat. With that said...
My concept of a good Dom/Sub, Master/Slave, Owner/Pet, etc. is not complicated, but does not fit in with norms in this modern world. I am into a modified 1950 style relationship. Men and women are not equal; we both have strengths that we should be proud of. Evolution has given men strength and the ability to concentrate on single areas with great passion. Women can create life, multitask, and have far more empathy than most men could ever see. Treating each other with respect except when role-playing is key, but the man should provide the financial and emotional support to the woman so she can fulfill her part. As the man, I try to be a gentleman opening doors and actually listening, etc. The woman needs to control the household and provide input to the man so the best choices can be made. I feel a woman should like to be frilly and sexy. I think manicure, pedicures and hairstylist are part of what a man should provide for a woman. In return, she not always be dressed to the max, but care for herself. If her man prefers dresses, she should conform to that with pride (except activities that really should be in other outfits). Photo’s overall showed some class in my opinion. I prefer teasing style photos and not straight to nudes. I pride myself on not asking for nudes ever, that is a woman’s choice, now sexy teasing ones is a different matter and I enjoy looking at those all day long especially breasts.
. My favorite Dom activities include: bondage (ropes, door and bed straps, handcuffs, and more that I will learn about) spanking and whipping (however not into drawing blood), nipple , , anal play, sharing (never done this but can go either way depending on you), performing, humiliation (I really enjoy writing things all over your body), objectification, wax play, and voyeurism (I like to show you off in adult public areas discreetly, ie blouse undone, etc.)
As a subbie, I prefer to be told what to do for her pleasure. I enjoy giving massages over all her body, favorites places are feet and breasts. I am into voyeurism and would like to try some public with me being the one doing the public activities. I do like treating my mistress to outings to keep her pleased, yet I do not have an abundance riches ... but maybe day the lottery...lol.
As I stated above I am still learning a lot about all the wonderful types of activities and willing to try almost anything.
I DO NOT PAY FOR PLAY OR ENJOY PAY DOMINATION. Nor will i talk with someone for very long after demanding that be part of my sub tasking. Thanks for reading
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My Ideal Person:
I think of the basics I prefer is honest, openness and roles/fantasies that are up front and not hidden in wordplay or wait until we are deep into conversation. I DO NOT PAY FOR PLAY OR ENJOY PAY DOMINATION. Nor will i talk with someone for very long after demand that be part of my sub tasking. A few rules for my ideal person they should know upfront, Rule 1 If something is un-comfortable or not to your liking, you have an obligation to yourself and me to say stop, backup, and explain further, or to disagree with that subject or action before moving forward. Rule 2 is to never worry about how long it takes to respond, I would prefer 1,2, 4 days etc. with a well throughout response than a quick response with no forethought that needs to be changed or explained in more detail down the road.
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